Yet another gathering of 'friends' appears to be headed downhill. We shall see. There will definitely not be any updating on the engagement thing, and although I posted yesterday I didn't care anymore cause it had been so long, well that was because I assumed that too long would be taken care of today but, no, no one to be seen. Also per my prediction, someone isn't showing at the gathering of folks, so now I really don't care. Whatever I am over it.
Interesting event with some other friends added to the general awfulness, although I was just a bystander in this one, let's just say a small disagreement went awry and the conversation ended like this:
Not Sane Person: ...yammer yammer "I am not arguing with you! I am just saying [insert arguing here*]"
*note that Not Sane Person had absolutely no self-awareness of the ridiculousness of the above utterances. Not Sane person is generally very earnest and intense about things.
Sane person 1: "good night"
Not sane person: "yeah goodnight stupid b*tch" [this was not in a kidding around ' love ya' tone, this NSP was serious]
Me: "woah!"
Others: <.....>
Sane person 1: "I better get an apology"
Not Sane person: "don't bother, f*ck off"
Sane Person 1: ...
Sane person 2: "okay take care of yourself"
Not Sane Person: "yeah have a nice life"
Me: "um can we all take a breath and calm down?"
Not Sane Person: "I don't expect that level of fairness from anyone...doesn't matter I was tired of all of you anyway"
[exit]
Everyone witnessing this bizarreness: "?"
So yeah...interesting bit of drama that. People are crazy. But also, relationships are fleeting and there you go...reconnecting with old friends is fantastic, getting to see current friends is great, realizing that all of this is just, well, fleeting isn't really the word --tenuous? Intangible? Meaningless? Well something like that. I am not in a good mood and have that whole "people are selfish bastards and will just walk out in the end so don't invest yourself and get hurt" feeling right about now. I will get over it. Bleah. This week sucks.